The other day I was invited to coach a two-and-a-half hour visioning meeting. I was super excited for the event. The group was working to create three innovative ways to serve future customersâand the meeting was planned to be totally interactive. Problem was, I was going to be five hundred miles from the meeting. I wouldnât be able to fly there in time.
Maybe this has happened to you? And maybe youâve thought to yourself, âThereâs no way that I can do the coaching.â But is that true? Itâs not. Video chat technology today is amazing, and constantly improving. As coaches, we need to take advantage of this so we can coach people remotely. Thatâs what I did. I joined the visioning session remotely using FaceTime. I coached each of the three groups just-in-timeâthe same way I coach my clients all over the world.
What about âGo Seeâ?âWhat About the Gemba?
For many people, even the idea of remote coaching is uncomfortable. It was at first to me too. After all, isnât lean coaching supposed to happen in the âgemba,â the place where the work is being done? Donât you need a direct, personal connection with the person you are coaching? These were the same questions I asked myself.
Although at first I was just as reluctant to give remote coaching a tryâas many of you may beâI had so many requests for coaching from people who were far away that I decided to start. So I did. And Iâve worked over the past five years to get better at it. Now itâs my primary method of coaching. So today, Iâd love to share 5 Tips and Tricks that I use for successful remote coaching every single day.
1. No Phones Allowed
Donât coach over the telephone! Use video chat. When coaching, itâs unbelievably important for you, as the coach, to see how the person you are coaching is doing. If they look a little too uncomfortableâif you can see from their facial expression and body language that they are having trouble understanding or moving forward, give them some extra nurturing. You can do that by smiling and nodding, speaking encouragingly and offering to schedule extra coaching sessions.
When coaching, itâs unbelievably important for you, as the coach, to see how the person you are coaching is doing.
On the other hand, if you can see that the person you are coaching looks a little too comfortable, then you can give them a virtual push into the uncomfortable âlearning zone.â Ask some challenging questions and/or introduce a new concept and skill. Remember, more than eighty percent of communication is through body language, so seeing the personâand having them see youâis super important. (Donât worryâyouâll get used to the way you look on video chat, and so will the person youâre coaching)
More than eighty percent of communication is through body language, so seeing the personâand having them see youâis super important.
2. Choose the Right Platform
Choose a video chat platform that works for both of you. I use different platforms with different clients: FaceTime, Skype, Zoom, WhatsApp. Use what works for both of you and what the organization supports. If you arenât used to video chat, practice beforehand with family and friends so you feel comfortable.
If the person you are coaching isnât familiar with video chat, help them learn and get started. Walk them through the steps and spend time simply chatting before you get into a real coaching cadence. Iâve had many clients who have thanked me for helping them learn to use FaceTime and Skype. Once we started using video chat, they began using it to connect with their children and grandchildren and doing that more oftenâan added, unanticipated bonus.
3. Connect Early & Often
Connect frequently! As with everything else we do, the more we coach remotely the more we get used to itâas does the person weâre coaching. It simply becomes a habit and we stop worrying about feeling awkward. Many people are initially concerned about how they look on screen. But after a while, as with people on reality TV shows, the cameras disappear into the background. You and the person you are coaching will forget you are on video chat.
Connect frequently! As with everything else we do, the more we coach remotely the more we get used to it.
Also, and perhaps even more importantly, when we coach people frequently, and see the person weâre coaching, it creates a great, personal, human connection. This is exactly what we coaches want. Once we have that personal connection, itâs easier for the person to âborrow our courageâ and step into the uncomfortable learning zone. I often bring a cup of coffee with me and encourage the person Iâm coaching to do the same, just as you would if you were meeting in a room together.
4. Go to the Virtual Gemba
âGo seeâ virtually. Just because you are on video chat doesnât mean you canât go see the work being done. In fact, going to see remotely is super easy. Have the person you are coaching flip the camera angle on their phone or tablet and carry you to the work you are going to observe. They can also prop up their phone or their computer so you can participate in huddles and meetings to see whatâs going on in the gemba over time.
Donât forget to look around during these âgo seeâ coaching sessions. Ask questions about what you are observing and check if anything looks out of the ordinary. This will help the person you are coaching and develop your own powers of observation at the same time.
5. Stay Connected
Use technology to stay connected when you are not conducting remote coaching sessions. Text and WhatsApp are great platforms for staying connected between coaching sessions. If the person youâre coaching gets stuck, or has a quick question, they can send you a message and you can quickly reply.
They can send you pictures of what they are seeing, they can forward their progress on their A3s or data collection, or anything else they are working on. This keeps the personal connection strong between coaching sessions and speeds up progress on the problem the person you are coaching is working on. Youâll be engaging in Single-Piece-Flow for remote coaching.
Use technology to stay connected when you are not conducting remote coaching sessions.
The world is changing. Technology is advancing and customer needs are shifting. We, as coaches, need to keep up. If we are going to help the people we are coaching overcome all the âI canâtsâ that prevent them from creating new and better ways to serve customers, then we have to overcome our own âI canâtsâ as well.
If you are not sure about remote coaching, then hereâs my suggestion: Give it a try! Because although we believe we can think our way into a new way of behaving, the opposite is actually trueâdoing things differently changes our thinking. Give these 5 Tips and Tricks a try, and let me know how they work for you. Iâd love to hear!